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Eileen

By Florence Nash

Eileen A. grew up knowing all about the Rice Diet from the women patients who rented rooms at her grandparents' Durham house, but she never thought she'd be a patient herself. However, in April 2003, she realized that "the gun was loaded" and pointing right at her. At the urging of her doctor, she enrolled in the Rice Diet Program because, she says, "once that gun goes off, your life is over. And I love life!"

You can tell that by looking at her: a petite blonde with a big warm smile, Eileen is full of pep and looks years younger than 62. The medical staff calls her an exemplary ricer.

Diagnosed with seriously high blood pressure at the age of eight, she was plagued with frequent headaches and shakiness, and chronic malaise. Eileen went from one diet to another, tried shots and pills, but she couldn't make real long-term change. Then when her first son was born, she was diagnosed with diabetes. Still, she never quite registered how much was at stake.

"I did all the right things, but I never knew why, never had a goal beyond looking good, getting into that dress for that party. The doctor never said, you have to lose weight because of your blood pressure, your diabetes. He just said, you're getting too big! My son always said, 'Ma, you need to lose weight. Do you think you ought to be eating that?' And I'd say, 'I'm watching myself. Don't worry, I'm watching!"

She makes a rueful face. "When I see pictures now, I can see how big I was, but in the mirror then I didn't see it."

Despite her sporadic dieting, her weight continued to creep up. Twice she was briefly hospitalized with chest pains. She was put on blood pressure medications and insulin. But Eileen is determinedly optimistic and, it must be said, pretty good at denial. She still didn't get the message. Her doctor advised catheterization; Eileen wouldn't hear of it. Instead, she talked to a doctor whom her doctor son respected. He told her that, without some major action, she'd have a heart attack in six months to a year. So how about a gastric by-pass? Eileen asked him.

"He says, ‘Why? You want to die?' And after looking over all my tests, he said, ‘Go to the Rice House.' And I took him at his word. I walked through that door, and I haven't turned back since."

"Since I've been on the Rice Diet, I've never felt so good! I don't feel bad. I don't get headaches, I don't have the shakes.

"People say, ‘You've been on the program eight months, you haven't cheated?' I did once, and I felt so bad! I had some half-and-half in my coffee. And it wasn't worth the price. My sugar went up, by blood pressure went up." When she's invited to dine with friends, Eileen says, "I don't eat. Will I ever? I don't think so, because that food is not worth the damage it's going to do to me."

Once a heavy smoker, Eileen quit in 1976 and started lecturing for the American Cancer Society. She'd seen a friend die from lung cancer. A year later she got her mother and husband to quit, too, but couldn't persuade her stepfather and sister. Her stepfather died of lung cancer; her sister has emphysema. So she's acutely aware now of cause and effect.

"My whole family has had by-passes, heart attacks, balloons. We're all genetic. My father lost both of his legs to diabetes. I want my legs. I love my legs!"

When asked how she makes it look so easy, Eileen doesn't hesitate. "This works because it's a caring place. You can't help but want to do your best for them. When I had that half-and-half, I thought, gosh, they care so much, and here I went and did that? It hurts me to see people do the wrong thing, and there are a lot of people who are doing the wrong thing."

"Look. You have a choice. You can eat that piece of cake, because you don't know when that bullet's going to hit. Or you can have something else."

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